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The CHURCH made Kai’s Adoption a Reality

How about that for a headline!?! 

That’s the reality though, without the local CHURCH, Kai’s adoption would not have happened. 

Tracie and I weren’t in a position to afford this adoption on our own. Maybe that should have stopped us from pursuing it. It has stopped many. A few people expressed that opinion to us. Well, not face to face but on Facebook and to others. But, as we prayed about it, we just felt God’s overwhelming push to move forward and to ask the CHURCH to help. So, we did. We did it on Facebook. We did it through emails. We did it on my blog. We did it Face to face. 

And…the CHURCH DID!!!! 

Here’s what I mean by that. Not one Church is responsible for Kai’s adoption or one person or one family, but MANY. 

We had 6 year olds give $5. We had teenagers give. We had families give $20. We had some who gave thousands. We had people give from Central Michigan, the Detroit Area, Grand Rapids and up north. From…PA, IND, VA, CA, CO, NV, TX, LA, NY, OH, IL, WI, WA, FL, TN, KY, DC and some I’m forgetting about. 

But, Kai’s adoption couldn’t have happened without every one of those gifts. 

And, how about this…

99% of the people that gave were followers of Jesus. 

You know why? Because generosity is close to the heart of God! I mean, HE Gave HIS Son for us! Jesus gave everything! The Acts 2 Church gave to support each other. We, as the Church, are called to give! I believe we’re called to give first to God through the Local Church and then to give as God leads us to give. 

I love what Todd Clark said about generosity…

‘Generosity will make you rich not poor’

I have found that to be 100% true in my life. Embarrassingly enough, I fought this for years. I didn’t give because I thought that because I made hardly anything working for the church and because I gave so much time to the Church, that that was the same as giving financially. I was wrong. Dead wrong. There is a very strong and compelling reason that Jesus said your treasure is where your heart is. He knew that we struggle like crazy to Trust Him and He wants our heart. If we can’t put our finances ahead of our heart, we won’t experience all He has for us. 

I can honestly say that is true. I have experienced that. When you make generosity so common in life, like breathing, and you do that over time, whether times are good or bad, one day…

You will wake up and experience a waterfall of the Holy Spirits presence in your life. I have. It’s amazing. 

THE CHURCH MADE KAI’S ADOPTION A REALITY! 

And, actual Churches made Kai’s adoption a reality. This just completely blows my mind! It’s still had to wrap my mind around!

3 Churches, who really don’t know my family or I all that well (I mean, I have a friendship with their Pastors) took offerings to help us! ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME?? So, we will always be in awe and so grateful to 242 Community Church in MI, New Bethel Church in IN and Canvas Church in VA. 

Then, Thrive Church in CA, who knows more of me and my Church because we’re in the same network of Churches, received an offering as well. ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME?

Also, the night before we left, I asked some folks from my Church to gather and pray for us. And they did! And, they threw us a surprise shower to help with Kai’s clothes and toys and toddler stuff! 

THE CHURCH IS AWESOME!!!

The Church is responsible for this adoption. Of all the complaining and whining I read about the CHURCH, I’m sorry if I can’t join in! I love the LOCAL CHURCH! She is the bride of Christ. The local Church, when working right, is the Hope of the World. The Church preaches the Gospel. The Church gives people a home. The Church allows the generations to come together. The Church is a movement! The Church is the hands and feet of Jesus! The Church is the LIGHT to this dark world. 

That’s why it just shocks me that Christians have become so apatathic towards their Churches. But, that’s for another blog post. 

Here’s what I know…

A boy who didn’t have a family, now has one. A boy who didn’t have a Church home, now has one. A boy who wasn’t going recieve the level of medical care his PKU needed, will receive one. A boy who slep in a crip with 12 other kids, will now have 4 siblings. A boy on the other side of the world, one of the 17 million orphans in the world, now has a home. 

The Church did that! 

I love the Church. 

‘Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you’ ~ James 1:27

Kai and his mama

I have been up since 3am. My friends on WeChat can attest to that. 

My mind has been racing. I was praying. Then the time came. 

It was time to officially get up. Get ready. Pray. Meet our guide. 

We got to the lobby and waited. Then our guide came. He drove us to the civil affairs office. 

We waited. We filled out some forms. We waited. 

Then the time came. Before I knew it Hong Kai was through the doors. Walking and checking everything out. 

I stood back a little and I watched he and Tracie meet. 

It was one of the greatest experiences of my life

He didn’t cry. He went into her arms. I wonder if that’s because hundreds of people were praying for that moment? 

We played for awhile in the office. We met with nanny and talked about his diet. Tracie is somewhat of a PKU expert, so that’s good. 

We took a family photo and then we left. That was it. We head back tomorrow for the official ceremony. 

The moment I lost it was when…

Kai called Tracie mama. Yup, losing it all over. 

A little of Kai’s story…And how we’re going to get him as soon as we get our Travel Dates

This is as much as we know about Kai’s story. What I do know is this…his story is about to inter twine with our stories and I can’t wait for our new story. img_1729

Kai was abandoned

At 6pm on June 19, 2014, the Police received a call by a citizen who said there was an unattended male infant at the Railway Station. The police rushed to the site quickly after getting the call. The policemen did a lot of search but failed to find his birth parents or other relatives.

He was confirmed as an abandoned baby, and was sent to the Child and Welfare Institute that day. He wore a white shivering unlined clothes and was wrapped with a pink quilt.

As the Doctor was examining him, he determined that the baby boy was about 5 months old and officially recorded his birthday as January 19, 2014. He was 4.4 kg or 9.7 pounds when he was abandoned, had heart murmurs, couldn’t hold his head up or couldn’t roll over. They ran a series of tests and a week later they found out he had phenylketonuria or PKU for short. Thankfully, his caretakers started him on a low protein diet with a medical formula. We don’t know if his birth parents knew about his PKU and most likely he was off diet for those 5 months.

He loved to be held by his caretakers and he could follow them with his eyes. He especially loved when they would tease him or give him baths.

What’s he like now?

Recently, his adoption agency answered a few questions for us about Kai. He still uses a bottle and he loves his caretaker. He currently weighs 29 pounds and is not potty trained.

We’re told Kai is sensitive and relatively timid. In front of familiar people, he’s more lively. He does have a few simple words, but that’s it. And, we know he loves to play outside.

When do we get to bring him home?

We still don’t know. Ugh! Everything is done. Every form has been completed and approved. Oh, except our Visa’s, which we should have by the end of the week.

So, we are just waiting for China to give us our Travel Window. Once they do, we do not have long to book our flights and plan our ‘Gotcha’ Day.

We do that we will leave Detroit on a Friday morning and we will arrive in Shanghai on Saturday evening. We will then take a train to Nanjing. We will spend 3-5 days there and then we will fly to Guangzhou where the US Consulate is located. We will spend another 4-5 days there where we will patiently wait for every thing to be completed. Then, we will drive down to Hong Kong and fly home!

Whew! We can’t wait to meet him and to bring him home!

Thanks for praying!

Thanks for sharing our YouCaring website on your Facebook page: https://www.youcaring.com/kai-551468

Thanks for praying!

Another KAI ADOPTION MIRACLE!!!

Happy Friday!!
 
I have some HUGE adoption news to SHARE.邹宏凯+(1)
 
Ok, as you know, God has been working miracles in our adoption process.

MIRACLES

Miracle # 1…We raised everything we needed to finish paying the Adoption agency (Children’s House International) and Dossier fees to China! Miracle!
 
Miracle # 2…Our Dossier was submitted to China and was officially locked into their system. Miracle!
 
Miracle # 3…We were told that it would take about 4-6 weeks for our Dossier to be translated and it only took 2 days!!!! MIRACLE!!
 
Miracle # 4…We were then told that the next step…Going from LOCKED IN DATE to LSC (Letter Seeking Confirmation) would take some time as well. We got word today that we have

OFFICIALLY BEEN MATCHED WITH KAI IN CHINA’S SYSTEM!!!!!

 
ONLY GOD!!!!!
 
What that means is…We were already Pre-Approved, but they have to wait for the final paperwork to get to China and then to be translated and then to go under review and then to matched. That all typically takes months!
 
God’s done it in under a week! ONLY GOD!!
 
Here’s what’s next…We receive our official LOA (Letter of Acceptance) in the mail, we sign it and get it back to our adoption agency ASAP. We have also just sent our paperwork for the US Consulate’s approval for our adoption and visit. Once all that is in…we wait for our TA (Travel Approval) and dates!
 
WOW! WOW! WOW!
 
I have been thinking we would realistically head to China sometime between late January and March! We may still! But, at this point, things are moving FAST!
Now, we are going to ramp up our efforts again to raise the last bit of funds needed for our trip! Airfare, Hotel, Ground Transportation, Food, Kai’s Visa, and Translator.
 
Our puzzle fundraiser has been going really well and tomorrow we’ll start posting about it regularly again! We have had 140 pieces sponsored out of 252!
 
ANOTHER POSSIBLE MIRACLE # 5…I’ve spoke with two different people who have asked if they could use airline miles towards our trip. Once we get more of an idea about travel dates, we will be able to explore that.
 
Tracie has had other adoptive moms calling her from around the country because they’re amazed at our fast these steps have gone for us. Their recommendation has been…
 
GET READY TO TRAVEL!! GET KAI’S BEDROOM DONE!!
 
We are going to start figuring out Toddler stuff again! We have a crib and a stroller. That’s it.
So, please be praying! Keep praying for Kai! Pray for God’s favor on his life. Pray that he has favor with us! Pray for Kai when he finally leaves the orphanage. Pray for us as raise funds to travel. Pray for safety and protection.

3 Simple Ways to Really Appreciate your Pastor

So, October is Pastor Appreciation month. Today is the last day, but you don’t need it to be Pastor Appreciation Month to appreciate your Pastor. So, I thought I would chime in on a few really simple ways to appreciate your Pastor.

But first…

Yesterday I was the guest speaker at Connect Church in Washington, IL. It was planted and is lead by Dave Jane. He’s a brilliant Pastor! They’re a great Church! Doing amazing things for the Kingdom.

At one moment, a key leader in the Church got on stage and brought up the paid staff. They gave each staff member and their spouses a small gift and an envelope. They showed some pictures of them on the screen, they thanked them and they prayed for them. It was an awesome moment! Simple, yet profound.

I hope and pray more Churches do that than not. 

3 Simple Ways

Pray. And, here’s the deal. Really pray for them. Don’t just say you do, actually do it.

Pray for them, their spouse, their kids, their leadership, their ministry, their finances and their health. Ask God for His favor on them. Ask God to give them wisdom. Ask God to raise up a network of people who will encourage them.

And, let them know you’re praying for them!

Support. And, here’s the deal. Really support them. This is HUGE! I believe this fully, you are actually holding back the forward momentum of your Church if your not on board with your Pastor. His vision for the Church and how they lead.

Now, maybe you think you can wait them out and then everything will be fine after they leave. But, the reality is, God has called them to be there and if He’s called you to be there as well, figure out how you can really support them.

The reality is, if you can’t, it may be time to move on. Sounds harsh, but its true.

Ok, here are a couple of random ways you can show support to your Pastor.

  • Encourage them over social media. Like their comments. Share their posts.
  • Say thanks.
  • Send a card.
  • Love on their kids and spouse.
  • Squash any gossip or negative talk about them.

Show UP. Yes, this is a biggie. Show up at Church. Show up in Church. Show up and be the Church. There are so many luke warm followers of Jesus. Sorry, no judgement here, but there are a lot of people who view ‘Church’ as a ‘To Do’ on their check list. It’s not. Being a part of the church is sacred. So, really Show up.

  • Serve.
  • Give. Pray.
  • Use your gifts.
  • Don’t give up during tough seasons.
  • Invite people to be a part.
  • Be passionate about your walk with Jesus.

Yeah, these are pretty simple. But, they would bring a huge lift to your Pastor.

Yes, being a Pastor is hard.

But, these 3 simple ways would go a long way to show your appreciation.

 

I can’t even process how ROUGH the month started but how AMAZING it finishing!

What a month! 

I’m telling you, this week started out ROUGH! I wonder how many people can relate? I actually wrote this BLOG POST talking about just being tired of pain! I know I’m not alone. I know people have rough weeks all the time, but this one, for whatever reason, just started out rough.

I take that back, the last 2-3 weeks have been on the rougher side. It kind of started on October 2nd. That was Thrive’s THREE anniversary and to be extremely honest, I had a very ROUGH morning that day.

Typically, our anniversary’s and big Sunday’s are my favorite, but something was going on inside my head and my heart and my soul. As soon as 8:30am hit, wave and wave of amazingly hard discouragement and disappointment just kept hitting me.

It was unlike anything I have ever experienced. 

Listen, I’ve been a Pastor long enough to know that its not an easy job. I get that. Satan is attacking, People attack, Life attacks and thats all before you wake up some days!

For whatever reason, October 2nd was really hard. Those lying voices in my head kept reminding me of all the people who have left Thrive, the people who have said negative stuff about me and the Church, all the initiatives we haven’t been able to do yet because of finances and then the 1 or 2 super colossally bad decisions I’ve made while being Thrive’s Pastor. Yes, I’ve made more. A LOT MORE. But, there are 1-2 that really stick out.

 

Here’s what happened though in my life:

God showed up big. People showed up big.

Here’s what I mean. God provided! He brought healing! He brought Peace! He brought love! He brought hope! The list below is just the short list of the amazing BLESSINGS God has brought my way. As you struggle with the rough moments, hold on, God has something for you! He has beauty that you can’t even imagine. He has healing that you can’t even imagine.

The Blessings that have found their way to our family…

ONE…A Found Hand Written Note in my Bible. It was left by an amazing Thriver and I have read her worlds over and over again! Such a blessing! 

TWO…Glasses for Bekah. A friend from TX messaged us last month and said she would love to bless Bekah with new glasses! Such a blessing! 

THREE…A Car. Yeah, no joke. A miracle. Both are cars are old and held together with duck tape. A dear friend gave us a car and said it was the best way they know possible for helping with our adoption. Just UNREAL! Such a blessing! 

FOUR…Gift for Pastor Appreciation. There is an amazing couple at Thrive who just bless so many people. Well, they gave me a gift for Pastor Appreciation month and with it, I was able to get some of the things my kids needed for school. Such a blessing! 

FIVE…Gift card for Shoes. A wonderful couple at church stopped me a few backs and gave me a gift card for a new pair of shoes. With 4 kids and two of them having PKU, shoes and clothes are on the low priority list for Tracie and I! Such a blessing! 

SIX…My parents. Yeah, I could fill blog post after blog post about all the amazing ways my parents help us all the time. They are just always there! Such a blessing! 

SEVEN…A mattress for Bekah. We’ve needed a mattress for 3-4 months for Bekah. There was unfortunate accident on her mattress with our cat. Last night, a dear friend texted Tracie out of the blue saying that she has a mattress for Bekah! Such a blessing! 

EIGHT…Approve, Certified and Sealed Dossier. This was HUGE. Many of our forms were set to expire this week before they were more than 6 months old for adoption process. Tracie, because of the amazing gift of a dear friend, was able to go to downtown Chicago and take the forms to the Chinese Consulate and get them sealed! Such a blessing! 

NINE…A trip to Chicago for Tracie. One of our best friends in the world, made it possible for her to take Tracie to Chicago to get our paperwork to the Consulates. It never would have happened without her help! Such a blessing! 

TEN…77 Puzzle Pieces for Kai.

This is the easiest and simplest fundraiser ever. We have two identical puzzles. They are pictures of Kai and our family. We’re asking that people sponsor a piece or two or three. Really, whatever amount they would like and that coincides with the puzzle piece. When someone sponsors a piece, we send it to them in the mail with a picture of the puzzle.

Then, we write their name on the other puzzle piece. When its completed, we will frame it and put it in Kai’s room for him to see all the people that helped bring him home!

We have been blown away and people are continuing to sponsor pieces.

Friends from all the country! Churches! Kids! Students! Its just been unreal!

Even though the month started rough. Even though this week started rough. God has provided. God has brought healing. God has reminded me of his love. God has showed up time and time again!

If you’re going through a rough time, hang in there! Stay close to Jesus! He will get you through.

‘Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest’ ~Jesus

 

 

I’m tired of being in pain

Yes, this title and post is much more personal and whiny than I try to be on my blog. I try to work very hard to keep my blog very positive. But, yesterday was a classic bad back day for me and all day long I found myself saying…

I’m tired of being in pain.

Unless its super hot and my back is very lose, outside of that, then I’m typically dealing with some sort of back pain. Either a little pain or a lot of pain. It’s been that way most of my life.

Why?

Well, because I’m not very smart. It started when I was young and was hit by a car. Then, through my 20’s I really didn’t take care of my back. It worsened in my 30’s and for some reason, when we planted Thrive Church, it went from bad to horrible. I had surgery in Jan of 2014 to remove a disc and that took care of the sciatica, but depending on the day, it can be either manageable or it can be down right ridiculous. Bending is out of the question. And, every time I lift something with even a little weight to it, my back could start screaming at me.

I try not to complain.

I try not to dwell on it.

I try not to let it drag me down.

I try to keep going.

I try to fight through it.

But, wow, some days. And, I know so many people have pain so much worse than mine.

And, I know some of the possible solution is on me, that’s the kicker! The solution?

Lose weight. 

We all know being overweight does not help your back and I am dreadfully overweight!

Now, before you start saying…‘just eat salad and start running’. Trust me, I have heard those a lot over the years! And, yes, I am trying to eat more salad. I have actually taken huge steps this last month. I cut out pop. I cut out some things that are very bad and I am feeling much better!

And, I can’t run. I would run. I love to run! My last run was in June of 2012 and I ran 10 miles! See, I love to run. But, I can’t. I love to do cross fit. I can’t. Anything that involves jarring…yeah, I could be laying on my back for a week.

So, I have been in this continuous hard and painful cycle for 4 years. I start to lose weight, everything feels better, than the stress of life comes (having a big family, financial pressure, leading a church) and sometimes when my back feels better I push it to hard and bam, I’m back to def con 5 back pain.

When I hit def con 5 back pain, I’m done. Getting through the day is a win for me. Bending, standing, walking, sitting, putting on socks, it’s all hard. That’s actually an understatement! It’s painfully hard.

Sunday’s at Church, when I hit def con 5 back pain is unreal. The walking, standing, preaching, moving, it’s just hard.

Why I’m typing all this, I don’t know.

I just got to the place yesterday where I started to whine and cry to God and then I found this amazing video on youtube about Job. Put a lot in perspective.

I know Paul prayed for his pain to be taken away. I know David cried out to God.

So, I’m crying out to God. I am going to do my best to take care of the body that God has blessed me with. I am going to keep making better eating decisions. I am going to work hard to loosen and strengthen the muscles around my back that don’t want to bend.

And, I’ll just keep putting one foot in front of the other.

If you’re in pain. My heart goes out to you. I’m praying for you. Let me know, so I can pray!

 

Want to help us Bring Kai home? Sponsor a Puzzle Piece. Super easy! HUGE IMPACT!

Hey there!

Maybe you’ve heard or maybe you haven’t, but the Raitz family is adopting an almost 3 year old boy from China! We are naming him Kai David Raitz and we couldn’t be more excited!
This process started 10 years ago when God started to lay adoption on our hearts. Last fall, Tracie and I decided to start walking down this path. As we prayed about adopting, God just really laid on our hearts that we should adopt a child with PKU. PKU is a rare genetic disorder that our two youngest kids have. If our kids stay on a very strict diet and drink their medical formula, they will live a very healthy life.
When we started this process, God lead us to a little girl who we named Winona Mae. We were steam rolling through the process and it came to a screeching halt in Feb of this year when we found out that she had passed away. She was very under weight and her body couldn’t fight off an infection. We were crushed and heart broken. We took a few months to grieve and just kept asking God if we should continue and He said Yes.
He lead us to Kai David! He’ll be three in Jan and he has PKU. We have been praying for this boy for months! His room is painted. His crib is bought. And, we are excited!
We are working hard to raise the last leg of funds needed to complete this adoption.
If you would like to be a part, we have a very simple way you can help. img_2567
Would you sponsor a Puzzle Piece or two or three? We have made two identical puzzles that have Kai and our families picture on them. There are 252 pieces. If you sponsor piece number 78, we’re hoping and asking that you would donate $78 dollars to Kai’s adoption fund. We would then send you a picture of the puzzle and whatever puzzle pieces you sponsored. We started last night and we already have 20 pieces sponsored!
You can either give HERE or you could send a check to our address listed below.
Tracie heads to Chicago tomorrow after Church to take our paperwork to the Chinese Consulate in downtown Chicago on Monday morning. Once they approve and seal our paperwork, we are working towards raising $8210 so we can officially pay our adoption agency and send our dossier to China. After that, we will need to raise $3500 for our gift to the Chinese orphanage and then airfare and travel for 14 days in China. Yes, we still have a long way to go, but if even 100 pieces are sponsored, we’ll be well on our way!
If you can’t help sponsor a piece, no worries at all! Please pray for us! Pray for the funds to be raised. Pray for the adoption grants we’ve applied for. Pray for a quickness. Pray that we would be able to get him before Christmas!
Lastly, as many of you know, I have spent the last 15 years speaking and teaching all over the country. I feel called to share the Gospel with students and adults and I have loved it. God has given me the opportunity to speak to over 250,000 people in that time! Yeah, crazy!
I’m telling you that because it is also an opportunity for me to earn extra income that can go towards our adoption. Since starting Thrive, I haven’t traveled as much, but now that Thrive is three years old and we have built a teaching team, I am freed up to travel and speak a little more.
So, if you are in a position to bring in speakers, would you consider me? If you could talk to your Pastor or Leadership or pass on my blog (www.jasonraitz.com), I would be honored.
If not, no worries at all!
Thank You! Thank you for considering! Thank you for praying! Thank you for your support!
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Is Thrive the Church that Baptizes all those People? Yes! Come and be a part!

It’s pretty awesome when someone in the community asks you about your Church because of your sweatshirt! Here’s what happened yesterday…

Coolest Story EVER! 

I was paying at iHop and my waitress looked at my Thrive sweatshirt and asked if that was the Church that baptizes all those people! I honestly was shocked and said YES! She said she read about us in the Morning Sun and she’s always wanted to visit. EASIEST INVITE EVER!!!! HOW freaking awesome is that?!?

It’s only a God thing what’s happening at Thrive! img_6247

So, head to Thrive this morning and experience what God is doing! We meet at Celebration Cinema at either 9 or 1015! Come a little early!

Speaking of Baptisms

Our next BAPTISM is on November 13th during both experiences!!! YEAH, you read that right. The theater gave us permission and we are borrowing a portable baptismal!!

It’s going to ROCK! Here’s all the info on Baptism at Thrive.

Just imagine being a part of that EXPERIENCE?!? People taking the STEP to Publicly Declare to Follow Jesus and the Band Leading us in Worship at the Same Time???

Don’t MISS Sunday, November 13th!!! We’ve never been able to do baptisms in our theater and we can’t wait!

It never ceases to amaze me how God moves and uses really simple things to reach people for his kingdom!

 

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