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Jesus Follower. Husband. Dad. Son. Brother. Pastor.

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How to make your Small Group GREAT!

One of my great passions in ministry is Small Groups! As much as I love communicating and building strategic plans around gathering groups of people for an event…Small Groups just get me fired up!small-groups-two

Ever since I read Sticky Church, I’ve been hooked! If you can create environments that are so welcoming and so accepting and so rewarding, people will STICK! Kids will Stick. Students will Stick. Students will Stick! And, that’s what we want at Thrive!

We want EVERY Thriver in a Small Group! 

We want EVERY Thriver to have a group of people who will be their ‘people’! Where they can ask spiritual questions without worrying about being judged. Where they can be prayed for. Where they can be loved. Where they can be taken care of. Where they can grow spiritually.Where they can live out the ‘One Another’s’ of the New Testament.

At Thrive, that’s why Small Groups are our Secret Sauce! We believe fully in Andy Stanley’s great quote…

Circles are better than rows

But, it takes some commitment and energy to make GREAT Small Groups. It’s just not automatic. And, I would rather my Small Group be great and something people look forward to, than just ok.

So, if you want your Small Group to be GREAT, here are a few things you can do to make it GREAT!

1. ONE…Make it a priority! 

Simple, right? Wrong! We’re so busy! There are so many things clamoring for our attention and we feel like we have to say yes to everything.

And, don’t throw tomatoes at me, but honestly, it seems like everything is more important than our spiritual growth now a days.

Our kids activities are def. more important. Just look at your calendar. Again, not saying at all that kids stuff isn’t important, I love watching my kids at school and in sports.

But, what if we lived like the early Church in Acts 2:42?

‘They Devoted themselves’. Just think about that word for a second. Have you DEVOTED yourself to…

‘Teaching, Fellowship, Breaking of Bread and to Prayer’?

What if our GROUPS became SACRED. We blocked out that time. My family has done some crazy things in the past to protect our Group time. Take some time to think and to pray about what you could do to make being a group a Priority for you and your family.

2. Really Care about your group. 

Yes, another one that sounds simple. But, what if we put the same energy into our groups that we did our passions in life (working out, camping, hunting, shopping)? Yeah, our groups would be pretty darn special wouldn’t they?

  • Imagine if we prayed for our group every day.
  • Imagine if we learned everything we could about the people in our group?
  • Imagine if we cared for all the kids in our group?

What can you do to really care about your group?

3. Actually pray for each group member and their families.

Again, I’m not breaking any records for deep thoughts. But, it’s crazy to me, if we’re really being honest, how little we pray!?!

Get a journal or make an online note or a note on your phone, and keep a record of all the prayer requests in your group and actually…

Pray for them. 

4. Support your Church and Pastor. 

I know you’ve probably never met someone who just stirs up the drama pot whatever chance they get! But, sometimes, small groups can become havens for the complainers, the gossipers and the drama lovers. Especially about Church stuff.

Don’t allow that in your group! If you can’t fully support your church and pastor, maybe you’re at the wrong church.

Spend time praying for your church, your pastor and the staff. Pray for the leadership. Pray for the kids and students.

5. Talk. 

A great small group is when the talk is equally spread around. If you lead or host the group, remember this great principle…talk 20% of the time and listen 80%.

Now, it might take some time for you to feel comfortable enough to talk. That’s ok. But, its pretty awesome when every one in the group adds to the group.

Ask spiritual questions. Tell the group what you’re learning from scripture. Share what’s on your heart.

6. Serve.

This is huge! Find some time to serve somebody! Serve the people in your group. When someone gets sick or life has taken a twist, feed them! Care for them. Or, as a group, find some time to serve your church or community.

There is something powerful that happens when your group unites outside of the group and serves.

7. Create special memories. 

When someone has a birthday in our group, make a BIG deal about! Have your whole group sing to them, lay hands on them and pray for them and then celebrate with cake and ice cream.

If you have kids and students, make a big deal when they hit certain ages.

Go on vacations together. Do spring break together. Go to each other’s kids games.

Help each other. Our group helped us paint a room for our upcoming adoption.

8. Stick Together. 

Yeah, this goes against some of the popular thoughts into group dynamics and ministry of always splitting up. But, the more time you have together, the deeper your community will be.

And, if someone in your group feels the nudge from the Holy Spirit to start their own group, send them out!! Celebrate them!!

If you don’t want your group to be GREAT, then don’t do any of these things. 

Here’s the thing, the less you do, the more you can do better. So, you may have to say no to some things in your life to make your group great, but I promise you…it will be worth it!

Put some energy into these things and do them over time and your small group will be GREAT!

It will become a weekly highlight. It will become something that your entire family looks forward to!

Just try!

 

 

10 Ways to Really SHOW UP at Thrive Church

 

It’s up to you, you can SHOW UP or you can not. If you do plan on SHOWing UP, here are 10 ways to really SHOW UP at Thrive Church.

10 Ways to really SHOW UP. 

1. Show Up consistently. We show up so we can get filled up to go out and help people find and follow Jesus.

2. Show Up with a smile. Life is hard. We are the Church for the broken and neglected. But, as much as you can, show up with a smile. If you can’t, don’t worry about it!

3. Show Up with someone. Yes, bring whoever you know.

4. Show Up with your kids. Oh my sweet goodness, bring your kids! They will love Thrive Kidz and One Youth!

5. Show Up early. Yup, come on! Our teams work really hard for you to experience God. Don’t miss any of it.

6. Show Up and serve. One of the best ways to get involved. If you really want to SHOW UP. come at 7am and help set up!

7. Show Up and give. Yes, we’re a church that asks you to give a portion of your finances to God through the Church. You’re blessed when you give and others are too!

8. Show Up online. We live in an online world. Like, comment, encourage, share as much as you can!

9. Show Up with encouragement. People are hurting. Bring the encouragement!

10. Show Up with support. Yeah, support your Church. Support your Pastors.

10 Ways that would have gigantic and profound impact on your life and Thrive Church!

I love my Small Group!

Acts 2:46-47…

They followed a daily discipline of worship in the Temple followed by meals at home, every meal a celebration, exuberant and joyful, as they praised God. People in general liked what they saw. Every day their number grew as God added those who were saved

I am super blessed.

Why?

Because I get to experience Acts 2:46-47 every Sunday night!

It’s sacred to me. It’s sacred to my family.

And, we love our small group.

Our Small Group met last night and I’ll be honest, I almost cancelled. 3 of our kids were away at a retreat and obviously came home exhausted. Tracie and I are still not feeling well. Our house was in disarray.

But, we thought and prayed and decided to not cancel.

I’m so glad we didn’t. Last night BLESSED ME! Last night was FUN. Last night was DEEP. Yes, deep. I love that our group really shared some giant prayer needs they have it took us to another level of intimacy with each other.

I LOVED IT!images

I love my Small Group.

I love that we get to experience Acts 2:46-47. I love that our kids love doing life together. I love that we have big meals together. I love that we pray for each other.

I LOVE THAT WE LAUGH! Gosh, we laugh! And that’s good!

We’re not going to wow the ‘need a super deep bible study’ folks out there. Actually, we just talk through the message and read some scriptures. But, it’s amazing what can happen in a group when people are committed to being there. Committed to each other. And committed to honestly sharing with each other.

I love my Small Group.

Thrive Church is Crazy about Growth Groups

Growth Groups are the single most important part of Thrive ChurchEblast Header-Sun Burst

Let me back up.

There are a ton of crazy important parts.

  • Our Sunday Experience
  • Our Kids
  • Our Students
  • Giving back to our Community
  • Planting Churches
  • Praying for people

But, I believe Growth Groups are the foundation of our ministry. 

I believe Growth Groups are the hub of our ministry.

I believe Growth Groups is where people will experience the ‘one another’s of the New Testament (in the words of Larry Osborne).

That’s why I am so excited that they are starting this week!

Very soon our house will be filled with Adults and Kids. Singles, Couples and parts of the Couple equation.

 

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