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Slide # 1…Series Graphic
- Good Morning Thrive Church! How are we doing today?
- Well, welcome to CMU! After two years of praying and seeking God, we start out Chapter Two of our history.
- If this is your very first Sunday at Thrive, please take a second to head to the VIP Room, out the back doors and to the left and we would love to give you a free gift. And, we have folks who would love to meet you!
- Let’s acknowledge the elephant in the room, there are a bunch of seats open. That’s good news! That means we have the opportunity to PRAY BIG GIGANTIC BOLD PRAYERS!
- Next Sunday and Easter and will give us a good feel for what the fall is going to be like!
- Ok, here we are in week 4 of How to Wreck Your Life. If you’ve missed any, head to the Thrive website and catch up! We’ve talked about Failure, Fear and Settling for Less.
- Now, today…
Slide # 2…If you really want to WRECK your life, make it all about you.
- The good news is, probably no one in this room struggles with making it all about you. Right!?!
- Who do you think of when you think of the greatest of all time?
- Mohamed Ali, right? Once he told a flight attendant that he didn’t need a seat belt because he was superman. She told him, well, Superman didn’t need an airplane!
- If you want to WRECK your life, make it all about you.
- Ok, here’s the deal though. If you’re a follower of Jesus, this really is for you. If you’re still doubting this Jesus stuff or haven’t truly given your life over to Jesus, this really isn’t for you yet.
- Because, Jesus came to turn the world upside down. He came to point people to God’s Kingdom and God’s Kingdom is both now and later. It’s both for our time here on earth and its for our time when breathe our last breath and then spend an eternity in heaven.
- So, this idea of not making it about you is so anti-today.
- Social Media tells us to make it all about us. Social media has given everyone a voice, which is awesome. But, it’s also taught us all of our opinions are the only ones that matter all the time.
- I was talking with Dr. Tom and imagine this, he said something that made me go…ooohhhh, he said
Slide # 3…‘A self centered life reduces your impact’ ~Dr. Tom Rundel
- In the short term, being all about yourself seems like a good idea. It helps you get ahead. And, who doesn’t want to get ahead?
- But, here’s what Paul says in Romans 8:8…
Slide # 4…
Focusing on the self is the opposite of focusing on God. ~Romans 8:8 (the message)
- There is a lot of self help love in our world, isn’t there? There are billions of dollars in the self help industry.
- And, it’s a good thing to take advantage of how amazing God created us to be!
- So, Paul isn’t saying to not care of yourself. He is saying there is a line. A line we cross when we start to care more about focusing on our self than we do on God.
- I know for my life, I operate at my best when God comes first. When a few days go by and then a week and then a month when I take my focus off of God, that’s when things start to get sticky in my life.
Big Idea: A self centered life reduces your impact
- Self-centeredness is “immoderate concern with one’s own interests and well-being; self-love or egotism.”
- Multiple Mirror Selfie shots
- Self-centeredness is a sin because it leads to being devoted to self-gratification and overlooking other people’s needs
- Here’s the thing…
Slide # 5…There is Self Love and then Love of Self.
- Looking out for our own interests is natural. In fact, Jesus uses our innate self-interest as a basis for gauging our love for others: “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31).
- In other words, in the same way that you (naturally) love yourself, learn to love others. Our universe should be others-centric, not self-centric.
- Paul gives us a In Phil 2 command leaves no room for self-centeredness.
Slide # 6…Phil 2:3-4 (message)
if you have a heart, if you care— then do me a favor: Agree with each other, love each other, be deep-spirited friends. Don’t push your way to the front; don’t sweet-talk your way to the top. Put yourself aside, and help others get ahead. Don’t be obsessed with getting your own advantage. Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand.
- Again, this is so anti what we’re lead to believe is the right way in today’s world!
STORY: Jason in my first 10 years of ministry
- I wanted to be the GREAT Somebody. I wanted everyone to know me.
- I wanted to be a GREAT speaker.
- I read a biography on Ted Williams, the greatest hitter ever, and he always wanted people to say when he walked by…there goes the greatest hitter of all time.
- I wanted that.
- God humbled me, or my pride humbled me and I’ve been a recovering tool ever since.
- 10 years ago I never would have worked hard to have a teaching team. Why? Because I wouldn’t have wanted anybody to get an praise but me.
- Here’s what I learned…
Slide # 7…Self Centered Living is: a SIN and leads to EGOTISM
Big Idea: A self centered life reduces your impact
Slide # 8…Live to Love others.
- Love and care for our neighbors (John 13:34–35),
- to not pass judgment on others (Romans 14:13),
- to bear others’ burdens (Galatians 6:2),
- and to be kind and forgiving (Ephesians 4:32).
- Being self-centered is directly opposed to the clear command, “No one should seek their own good, but the good of others” (1 Corinthians 10:24).
- There are many other similar commands calling for selfless sacrifice and service to others (Romans 12:10; Ephesians 5:21; Galatians 5:26).
- Every act of self-love is rebellion against the authority of God. Self-centeredness is rooted in one’s fleshly desire to please self more than God. In essence, it is the act of supplanting God’s authority with one’s own ego.
Slide # 9…
James 3:16 (message)
Whenever you’re trying to look better than others or get the better of others, things fall apart and everyone ends up at the other’s’ throats.
Slide # 10…Big Idea: A self centered life reduces your impact