Ok, I just re-read the title and I cringed. Why? Because to my core, I’m a people person!
I love people! I love their stories! I love getting to know people! I love seeing God work in their lives! I love seeing Jesus’ love envelope them! I love people.
I don’t ever want to Unfollow or Unfriend anyone on Facebook.
But, it happens.
Here’s what I’ve learned when it comes to Facebook in my life. Too much Facebook is not good. Too much negativity is not good. Too much drama is not good. You put them all together and it’s a…
PERFECT STORM OF NOT GOOD!
It’s just not good for my soul to constantly be filled with all that trash.
So, I unfollow people.
- If they use their own personal page to create drama
- If they use it to fill the inter webs with even more negativity than it needs
- If they speak poorly of others
- If they Bash churches or Pastors
- If they Bash anyone or are just downright awful
- If they swear or post nasty images
Now, it’s their right to do that! I’m not saying they shouldn’t. It’s their page and they can do what they want. I choose a different way. I wrote this blog post at the beginning of the year about how I approach using Facebook. I know its a bit radical for some, but I personally think the Kingdom of God would benefit from more followers of Jesus using their page to represent Him!
And, I unfriend people.
This really hasn’t happened much. Even when people have spoken poorly of me and bashed me, I waited for them to unfriend me.
Really, the only reason I would unfriend someone is if they really bashed someone I cared for. Or, if they really bashed the ‘Church’.
Ok, that’s not true. A few years ago I realized I had thousands of friends on Facebook and I didn’t know hardly any of them. So, I went through and unfriended about a 1000 and got tired and I stopped!
I’ve been unfollowed and unfriended…
The reality is, I know that people have unfollowed me. At times, I have posted way too much or I have been way over the top about how excited I am about my church and what God is doing there. People have unfollowed me. It’s ok.
And, people have unfriended me and that’s ok.
The reality is, I have found that this is important for my own soul. This may not be important for yours. But, my hope is that people will stop filling Facebook with trash.
We’ll see. I’m hopeful.